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moonwisethese reactions are so friggin' slow. Do the Claisen already! *sigh*
Had a nice chat with![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
ssilverfish last night (it's nice when people are online!) about the terrors of middle school and the wide-eyed fascination that little girls have with stuff they shouldn't be reading about just yet. It was fun to think about the slumber parties and such that you have as an early teen and younger. Heh heh... when I think of all of the copies of "The Valley of Horses" that disappeared mysteriously out of my room... sorry Mom, it didn't help, I learned it all on the bus anyway. What inexperienced girls discuss in hushed tones is such a hilarious mixture of imagination and twice-removed hearsay that finding out what the real stuff is turns out to be almost too prosaic.
The group went out for Chinese today for lunch, and despite ourselves we sat outdoors. It has been humid and very hot here and so we've spent as much time in the free air conditioning as possible.
M regaled us with tales of her Unwelcome Houseguest, a woman who more or less imposed on her to stay for three weeks, even though M barely knows her and the woman could just as easily had her work pay for a hotel for that time. It's really quite amazing, the capacity of insensitive human beings to impose on one another without really thinking about it; the guest had the temerity to complain that M's b/f is coming over for 5 days and M asked her to stay elsewhere for that time. Guest's work will pay for the hotel, but guest is bitching anyway. M really needs to put her foot down about guest, esp since guest is cooking very stinky Asian pickled foods in M's apartment, but she claims she doesn't have it in her to tell guest to go shove. My opinion is that every person has a breaking point, and sooner or later M will reach hers.
M seemed a little shocked yesterday after she was complaining that our main lab UV lamp kept disappearing into another lab to hear me say that I'd confronted the thieves and told them that they were under no circumstances to remove anything from my bench. I guess this is a trait of mine, to not care what people I don't care about think about me, and so I have no trouble telling these guys to quit snitching out of my desk to their faces.
My web site has been down for well over a day and if it doesn't come back up then I think I will be placing some calls to CA. And just as I was planning an update... grrrr.
Had a nice chat with
ssilverfish last night (it's nice when people are online!) about the terrors of middle school and the wide-eyed fascination that little girls have with stuff they shouldn't be reading about just yet. It was fun to think about the slumber parties and such that you have as an early teen and younger. Heh heh... when I think of all of the copies of "The Valley of Horses" that disappeared mysteriously out of my room... sorry Mom, it didn't help, I learned it all on the bus anyway. What inexperienced girls discuss in hushed tones is such a hilarious mixture of imagination and twice-removed hearsay that finding out what the real stuff is turns out to be almost too prosaic.The group went out for Chinese today for lunch, and despite ourselves we sat outdoors. It has been humid and very hot here and so we've spent as much time in the free air conditioning as possible.
M regaled us with tales of her Unwelcome Houseguest, a woman who more or less imposed on her to stay for three weeks, even though M barely knows her and the woman could just as easily had her work pay for a hotel for that time. It's really quite amazing, the capacity of insensitive human beings to impose on one another without really thinking about it; the guest had the temerity to complain that M's b/f is coming over for 5 days and M asked her to stay elsewhere for that time. Guest's work will pay for the hotel, but guest is bitching anyway. M really needs to put her foot down about guest, esp since guest is cooking very stinky Asian pickled foods in M's apartment, but she claims she doesn't have it in her to tell guest to go shove. My opinion is that every person has a breaking point, and sooner or later M will reach hers.
M seemed a little shocked yesterday after she was complaining that our main lab UV lamp kept disappearing into another lab to hear me say that I'd confronted the thieves and told them that they were under no circumstances to remove anything from my bench. I guess this is a trait of mine, to not care what people I don't care about think about me, and so I have no trouble telling these guys to quit snitching out of my desk to their faces.
My web site has been down for well over a day and if it doesn't come back up then I think I will be placing some calls to CA. And just as I was planning an update... grrrr.
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Date: 2002-06-12 12:16 pm (UTC)OMG! 3 weeks! Why would her work pay for a hotel? Is she displaced from her own home for some reason, or on temporary assignment?
Man... Especially for someone you hardly know, that's a lot to ask of someone else.
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Date: 2002-06-12 02:06 pm (UTC)3 weeks are 2 weeks too many to be inviting yourself to someone's house, even if you know them well and even if they're family I think. Everyone knows it's always extra work to have house guests even if they leave the house to work or go to a seminar or something, it breaks up the routine.
I'd only stay for max a week at someone's place other than my parents'.
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Date: 2002-06-12 04:50 pm (UTC)>> What inexperienced girls discuss in hushed tones is such a hilarious mixture of imagination and twice-removed hearsay that finding out what the real stuff is turns out to be almost too prosaic.
Heheheh... it's so true. I was thinking about doing a little writing on this topic. I'll pass it your way if I do.
I feel M's pain. I had something similar happen to me when a friend from back home asked if he could crash with me while he looked for an apartment. I read this as, "I am visiting and will stay with you for a weekend while I look. I will find something, leave, and move back when school starts." Then, he showed up on my doorstep with a car full of stuff, and basically said he hoped he found something soon so that he wouldn't inconvenience me for more than a month. ARGHHhhhh... he then proceeded to plug my toilet nightly, break my shower door, and act inconvenienced when I courteously asked him to join my friends and I when we went out. (The funny thing was that he ate some cereal that had been in my apartment for a year -- I meant to throw it away before he got there, but didn't get a chance, so I hid it. He found it and ate it... heh... I never told him how old it was, but he told me it was tasty.) Anyway, he found a place and moved out after about three weeks (and also paid part of my rent, although I never asked him to, so that was actually nice). I suppose living with me in a poorly air-conditioned efficiency wasn't what he had in mind. Do give M my sympathies.
Good for you for confronting the other lab about the UV lamp... my labmates are content to complain and make snide remarks about other peoples' behaviors behind their backs, but they never want to confront anyone about such problems. Solves it much faster, doesn't it?!
Anyway, I hope your site's up again soon! Seph with a perm? Next thing you know, he'll be sporting a mullet. Wonders never cease.
Talking about growing up...
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Date: 2002-06-15 08:45 am (UTC)